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Families, culture and discipline are intertwined in ways that fascinate me. So many factors influence how we raise our children- some we are aware of, some not. Intentional parenting means always striving to be emotionally honest- with ourselves and others.

Everyone brings real talent to parenting. The key is tapping into what you know versus learning new skills. Your approach has to feel natural because you're tested more when upset! Most folks can enjoy the adventure of raising children- and it requires more effort for some than others.

Who isn't overwhelmed- between juggling and learning the latest "do's" and "don'ts"? The primary nurturer is supposed to stay home and maintain a fabulous career. Dad's want to be more involved but still be guys about it, too. It's tempting to reach for perfection, ignoring the high cost to everyone.

Parents and children thrive best in tribes- with teens camping nearby, rejoining as needed. Today's tribes only look different. A great deal of love and energy can be wasted if couples view parenting as a nuclear family task. Healthy families grow in homes and communities- not malls.

Families are increasingly multi-cultural, which creates new challenges and complexities, (especially around discipline), in schools and communities. To ignore the power imbalances a fast-growing number of today's families face is to erase their differences.

My coaching draws on the strengths of your culture, family, values and experience. Zenith is the highest point. You get there by creating a balance between adult needs and childrens, leading instead of ignoring or over-parenting and focusing on the goal.

Welcome to Zenith parenting-